Signs That You Need to Rev Up Your Sex Life
If marriage is a travel, then for sure it's not the best one. Although every marriage is unique, somewhere along the marital highway, you will come across bumps in every intersection, your sex life included. This is not pleasing at all and you will set your marriage plummeting into a ditch unless you know how to spot the road signs and properly navigate. And if you play your cards well, the sex stuff and all the others will be better than ever.
So do you have a good sex life? Is the trip enjoyable? Below are the signs that may tell you it might be time for an overhaul and rev it up.
SIGN #1 --- It's Getting Monotonous
You and your spouse make love on the same day at the same time in the same place. Isn't it boring? It's like eating the same pizza on Mondays and Wednesdays and Fridays.
When I bring my son out we always eat at Jollibee - his favorite fast food chain and he will always have the same order- chicken, rice, french fries, coke. Since he is only able to eat just almost half of his usual order, I no longer order for myself and will just eat his leftover. Over time I was no longer happy eating the same kind of food.
If this is the way sex is going through your relationship, it's getting to the point that it's not fun anymore. It's becoming more like a chore that you need to fulfill at a certain time. Where's your spontaneity, baby?
SIGN #2 – You Are Left Unsatisfied
When you do get intimate with your spouse, do you achieve maximum pleasure? If not, your sex life may be in serious trouble. This is most often the case with women. Some women find it more difficult to achieve maximum pleasure in the bedroom. It won't help if you would just sit there wondering what happened. Take action by telling your husband how you feel, offer suggestion or guide him to the pleasure path that you want. A relationship where only one party is pleased, is likely to fail.
SIGN #3 – The Feeling That Sex is a Responsibility
As had been said, being intimate with your partner should not seem like a chore or a responsibility that you must fulfill. Be spontaneous. Initiate sex. Experiment. Try a new position or simply just do it at a different time and place. It doesn't have to be always in the bedroom. If you were getting intimate while you were sitting in the couch or you were inside the car, stay right there. Trying to switch places might just spoil the moment.
Sign #4 – The Absence of Sex
To have a good sex life, you must first be having sex. Of course. What good do you get from what you do not have? If you are married or into a serious relationship, you should be. Whether you get intimate on a daily basis or even just once a week is important to your relationship.
Sign #5 – Your Marriage Is Heading for a Divorce
Despite the fact that divorces happen due to things not related to intimacy such as money and careers, the lack of intimacy maybe to blame. Couple who are happy inside the marital bedroom are likely to be happy outside of it as well.
Remember these signs and if you do bumped into them, take action and bring back the magical sparks into your relationship again.
