Submitted by Anonymous on Wed, 03/17/2010 - 08:45.
Hello Dear, you need not despair. This is the story of almost all women who get displaced as a result of making a family choice of moving with their husbands.
First learn to ignore the negativity. The more thought you give to the negative vibes that your in-laws are sending your way, the more power you are giving to them. It's not in vain that we are taught to stay positive since childhood.
Yes, job market is bad, but make sincere efforts, try to compromise a little in terms off salary and job description and look at job profiles which are a little different from your skill. Look at sectors which are still hiring and get some training in those sectors. Once you get a job all nothing much will affect you.
Stop expecting from your husband, if he is not reciprocating to your needs. Show him what it feels to be ignored. If he notices a change in your behavior he would be shaken out of complacency. If not, talk to him straight and suggest marriage counseling. If you are feeling neglected and unwanted, what is the sense in staying such a marriage? Tell him how you feel. Marriage is not a business deal that if you have a job you will be treated well, if not you are a doormat.
Wish you all the best. We hope to see a more positive post from you soon.
Hello Dear, you need not
Hello Dear, you need not despair. This is the story of almost all women who get displaced as a result of making a family choice of moving with their husbands.
First learn to ignore the negativity. The more thought you give to the negative vibes that your in-laws are sending your way, the more power you are giving to them. It's not in vain that we are taught to stay positive since childhood.
Yes, job market is bad, but make sincere efforts, try to compromise a little in terms off salary and job description and look at job profiles which are a little different from your skill. Look at sectors which are still hiring and get some training in those sectors. Once you get a job all nothing much will affect you.
Stop expecting from your husband, if he is not reciprocating to your needs. Show him what it feels to be ignored. If he notices a change in your behavior he would be shaken out of complacency. If not, talk to him straight and suggest marriage counseling. If you are feeling neglected and unwanted, what is the sense in staying such a marriage? Tell him how you feel. Marriage is not a business deal that if you have a job you will be treated well, if not you are a doormat.
Wish you all the best. We hope to see a more positive post from you soon.